Parents have a tremendous influence on their children and it is important to include them to help influence a positive atmosphere. We recommend having an inclusion mindset versus one of confrontation as supportive clear minded parents tend to have coachable non-excuse making kids. During your parent meeting a good agenda to follow would be a brief introduction of yourself (no need to list all your accolades or accomplishments), your team core values and standards, clear expectations in regard to the parent-player-coach relationship, playing time considerations, logistics and scheduling, and close with answering of any questions.
As previously stated by having clear core values you help set a foundation for positive behavior both on and off the court. It also becomes clear to your parents that you care about more than basketball, that you care about the development of their child as a person. Parents will also have a better understanding of what helps guide your decision making and can assist with reinforcing. We do not recommend a long list of rules beyond these core values but rather two to four standards for your players that your parents have an understanding of. An example of standards may be having fun, great effort, being on time, and no whining or complaining.
Discussing the parent-player-coach relationship helps set clear communication expectations. In regard to the parent-coach relationship, a parent should expect to know your coaching philosophy and core values, team and schedule requirements, fees, and how playing time is decided. As a coach we expect parents to express any concerns directly to us versus in front of their child based on their strong influence. Concerns should never be addressed immediately following a contest since when emotional the best words and decisions are not chosen. Parents should encourage their child to voice any concerns they may have to their coach directly with their parental support and notify you of any schedule conflicts in advance as appropriate. Things that are appropriate for parents to discuss with you as a coach include the treatment of their child either mentally or physically, behavior concerns of their child, and ways to help their child improve but we recommend team strategy, play calling, or discussion of other kids on your team as not being appropriate. We also recommend not discussing playing time if it is coaches discretion at the age you are coaching which we will review later.
In the parent-player relationship, Bruce Brown, founder of Proactive Coaching, recommends that if your child is in a safe and appropriate environment, “Release your child to the game.” By doing this as a parent we improve our child’s ownership, enjoyment, and intrinsic motivation for playing basketball. As a parent, setting high standards for our children in regard to effort and values is ok as long as it is within their control (not based on winning) and clearly communicated. Also, parents should avoid the PGA, or post game analysis as if done consistently it becomes toxic for your child’s enjoyment of the game.
For the coach-player relationship, tell your players it is an open door to discuss playing time and to communicate any concerns you may have in a respectful and direct manner. Tell them that this takes courage of which you greatly appreciate. We also recommend telling your players to not compare themselves to others and focus on the things they can control such as their attitude and effort. As a coach it is important that your expectations and standards for your players are simple and clear.
Playing time concerns tend to be more of an issue as players get older when playing time is no longer equal. In alignment with USA Youth Basketball we recommend equal playing time for ages seven through eight years old, equal playing time for ages nine through eleven years old with coaches discretion the last two to four minutes of the game, and full coaches discretion for ages twelve and above with common sense being utilized. As long as there are no serious behavior concerns we recommend that every one of your players gets into the game and plays. Most youth associations have clear guidelines that you will need to follow in regard to playing time which may slightly differ from above such as equal playing time through sixth grade with coaches discretion following. As a youth coach these guidelines can simply be communicated to your parents. If it is coaches discretion at the age you are coaching there will be multiple factors that go into you or your staff’s decision on your player’s playing time. These factors should be communicated to your parents and players and include skill level, behavior and work ethic, athleticism, practice and game performance, and potential match up considerations.
We are very excited about our new home program called Ball Handling Kingdom. The program is designed for ages 6-14 and players will progress from sloth to cheetah levels over the course of 5-6 weeks. Each daily skill session takes less than 10 minutes to complete to improve focus and intensity.
We guarantee improved off hand development, vision, and the ability to change direction, speed, and height. See the below pdf for the entire Lion week skill session designed for ages 9-12 along with one of the corresponding drill videos. The entire cost of the membership program is just $5.00 and if not happy we will refund your money!
Lion Level Ages 9-12 pdf
Mental training helps young athletes play sports with less tension and anxiety. What athletes think affects how they feel and perform, the mind guides action. If athletes succeed in regulating their thoughts, then this will help their behavior. As a result, young athletes can perform and play with more joy and at higher levels.
Mental training is deliberate, intentional, and hard training. Like physical skills, mental skills only improve if you do the work. The coaching staff has to support this work and continue the mental development of its players. It is a competitive advantage to do so.
Vision and Goals
You must have dreams and goals if you are ever going to achieve anything in this world. - Lou Holtz
Goal setting is a skill for growth and peak performance. Goals keep everyone on target. Seek progress, not perfection. Be mindful of being present, it can take longer if one eye is always on the goal, as you only have one eye for the journey.
What does your athlete want to accomplish in basketball? Have your athletes make a list of three goals and write them down on an index card. They should then post this index card where they will see it frequently throughout the week. The goals should be specific, measurable, actionable (use a verb), relevant, and time specific.
An example of a well written goal: I will complete my finishing at the rim and five minute off hand ball handling routine three times per week over the next month or I will play one on one against a stronger player two times per week over the next month. These goals would be different for in-season and off-season training.
Process Over Results
At the youth level, success is measured not in wins and losses but in the growth and development of your young athletes. Basketball is not a measure of your athlete’s self worth. Your athlete’s value comes from who they are, not from what they do. Judging success by wins and losses is tragically flawed, and pursuing it will leave you and your team completely unfulfilled. By focusing on improvement, work ethic, and the process the wins will take care of themselves and your player’s will play present.
The steps of mastery are not constant, but move in steps. There may be discouragement with a plateau in growth but in time this will eventually lead to another growth spurt. Tell your players they know they are going in the right direction if they are saying that this is hard.
Lastly, remind your players not to judge themselves by results. Fixed mindset players rarely seek out opportunities to learn or challenge themselves as their self-belief is tied to results. These players shut down against more talented opponents for self-preservation. As coaches, we want our players to be fiercely competitive, play in the present moment, and not tie their self-worth to results. This will lead to improved performance, joy, and outcomes.
Proper breathing helps expel tension and stress and can bring players into the present moment. The act of prolonging exhalation, regardless of inhalation length, promotes the relaxation response and can have a calming effect. Your players’ minds will become more powerful as it becomes calmer and clearer.
There are many different rhythmic breathing strategies that are effective. One we find easy to teach is breathing through your nose for a five count, holding for a two count, and then exhaling through your mouth for an eight count. Optimal and practical times for practicing this may be before a team meeting to improve focus or during times of high anxiety when the intensity and tension needs to be turned down.
There is vast research to support the power of visualization. Visualization sharpens and strengthens the muscle memory for the physical activity at hand. It works as the brain does not always differentiate between real and vividly imagined experiences because the same systems in the brain are used for both experiences. You do not have to have a PhD to use visualization activities with your team.
To perform simply have your athletes relax by taking a few deep breaths and then have them close their eyes. Have them, from the first-person point of view (through their own eyes versus the eyes of spectators) experience making great plays, talking confidently on the defensive end and in a stance, making shots, over coming a poor call with great body language, and creating plays for their teammates via a pass or solid screen. Really encourage your athletes to feel it, see it, and enjoy it like it was real. Visualization could be done the night before the game, during short bursts during the day, or for 10 minutes two to three times per week.
Another way to assist with visualization and strengthening muscle memory is to have your athletes watch video of themselves performing at their best. The imagery can be more instructive than words. This allows the athlete to absorb the images and positive feelings.
Self-Talk and Affirmations
Your athletes may not have control over how other people talk to them but they do have control over how they talk to themselves. Words put pictures in your mind, which impacts how you feel, which impacts what you do. Most people have been conditioned to tell negative stories about themselves and their performance to appear humble. Negativity is not humility.
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You are a Youth Basketball Coach. Now What?
The reason why we volunteer to start coaching our son or daughter’s youth basketball team is because we love our child, we enjoy the game of basketball, or sometimes because no one else volunteered for the position. As a volunteer youth basketball coach we come from all occupations and experiences and typically not one of us is a professional basketball coach by trade let alone a head coach at the high school or college levels. Even if you were a star basketball player in high school or college it may have been ten to fifteen years since you were last involved in basketball for a full season. With the vast wealth of information out there it can be overwhelming for anybody. So now what?
This book is designed to help you navigate what is important to teach as well as what’s not important in regard to long term development of your team and child. We strongly feel that positive core values, skill development, and having fun are far more important to long term success than any strategy or plays and having fun does not happen without positive core values, working hard, and skill development. To illustrate this there are tons of successful ways to play the game of basketball offensively and defensively but there is one thing that never changes. For these offensive and defensive strategies to be successful, you need good players.
If your players cannot shoot, pass, pivot, or dribble well your perfect play or offensive system will not work. If your players struggle to listen, lack a work ethic, are not good teammates, and are not motivated to improve skill level does not grow. Good players listen, work hard, are good teammates, and are skilled. So how do you get good players? As a youth basketball coach you must develop core values and skill. Additionally, the offensive and defensive strategy you do end up choosing must be simple, easy to teach, allow some player freedom for decision making offensively, and ideally incorporate skill development within your system so practices are more efficient. We will get into this all in greater detail later. For right now it is important to know that youth basketball coaching and development is a marathon and not a sprint. Slow long term improvement versus short term gains from strategy is paramount.
Pete Carroll in his book Win Forever: Live, Work, and Play Like a Champion says, “The simple act of making thoughtful, affirmative statements about who we are and what we want to achieve can be an incredibly powerful tool for getting the best possible performance out of ourselves.” He also notes that if we change who we are from year to year we will never be great at anything. As a youth basketball coach it is extremely important that you have three to five core values that you have written down and strongly believe in with your whole heart and that you can be genuine about. These core values will become the foundation of your culture and will help shape positive behavior within your team both on and off the court. They should be so clear that everyone on your team knows what we are about and what is important to us. Your current youth association you belong to or high school coaching staff may have these values clearly defined that they want taught and emphasized throughout the year. You may have to define them yourself based on what you feel is important to the group you are coaching.
Some examples of teams successfully defining their core values and living them are the United States Military Academy West Point’s core values of duty, honor, and country and the University of Virginia men’s basketball team values of humility, passion, unity, servanthood and thankfulness. These two groups have clearly defined who they are and what they want to be about. They have a strong identity that helps guide behavior in a positive way. West Point is one of the most highly regarded leadership institutions in the world and Tony Bennett’s team at the University of Virginia has been one of the top basketball programs in the United States with a National Championship won in 2019.
You may be thinking that hey this is just coaching a fifth grade youth basketball team. We are not a college or professional program and this core values thing seems a little over the top. We completely understand this and it is human nature to think this way. However, by defining what core values you want emphasized and taught, you are taking a big step toward becoming above average and not the normal team or program. You are taking a big step in shaping your team and child in a positive way both on and off the court.
As an example for youth basketball ages five through eight years old, this may simply be stating to your group that we are emphasizing listening, working hard, and having fun and then defining what these values look like. As a coach we know our players are listening when they are not bouncing the ball or talking to teammates and have their eyes on you while talking. Working hard is giving your best effort and not comparing yourselves to others. When we listen and work hard we will have fun. After defining these core values ask your team if they agree so they have a sense of ownership. Also, when you see these core values demonstrated it is important to celebrate them in front of the group.
Daniel Coyle, in his book The Talent Code, does an unbelievable job of discussing the many factors of motivation, which he terms ignition, and how, “Ignition supplies the energy, while deep practice translates that energy over time into forward progress.” As a coach you will be involved in creating the desire and energy of your team to work hard, improve, and follow your team’s core values. You will be involved with creating the vision and habits for your team. In this chapter we will discuss how motivation can be created and sustained and why long-term commitment, language, and physical environment are important. We will also discuss how to improve intrinsic motivation and when to use extrinsic motivation.
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Strength and conditioning for youth athletes has been shown to have many positive benefits which include: improved gross motor skills and performance, injury prevention, reduced body fat, and increased muscle mass, psychosocial well-being, and bone mineral density. Most parents are not certified strength and conditioning specialists and tend to have many questions in regard to when is a strength and conditioning program safe to start for their child, how often should it be done, what type of exercises are appropriate, and should I hire a trained strength and conditioning specialist? This article will attempt to answer these normal questions that most parents and youth coaches may have.
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There is no evidence that strength training stunts growth. Additionally, injuries to the growth plates can occur but this is usually due to improper technique and too much weight. When injury did occur to the growth plate it rarely affected growth. To prevent injury children should never attempt a one-repetition maximum.
Stages and Progression
The Long-Term Athletic Development Model (LTAD) and the National Academy of Sports Medicine (NASM) Optimum Performance Training (OPT) model are two sound pathways for youth strength and conditioning progression. The LTAD has useful information in regard realistic progressions specific to age and skill level to keep physical activity fun and safe, along with maximizing performance level as children age. There are three stages of the LTAD which we will go into more detail on for ages 6-14 years old. The NASM OPT model for young athletes progresses through three levels: stabilization, strength, and power training. This model also provides general guidelines for youth resistance training in regard to sets, reps, intensity, and recovery.
Fundamental Stage (Males 6-9 and Females 6-8)
Per the LTAD, in this stage children participate in less-structured activity with a focus on physical literacy and multiple sports that include running, jumping, and kicking that challenge balance, coordination, and speed. It is not necessary to have formal strength and conditioning training during this phase that is separate from multiple sport participation.
Learn to Train Stage (Males 9-12 and Females 8-11)
In this stage there is low to moderate structure and focus on technical competency. Again, multiple sports are strongly encouraged (three or more) and in this stage children can learn proper body weight training. These exercises would include push-ups, bodyweight squats, pull-ups, planks, lunges, and external resistance with medicine and stability balls or rubber tubing. Per the NASM OPT model this stage of training would start with foundational stabilization exercises with a dosage of 1-3 sets, 12-15 reps, at low intensity, with a recovery of 0-30 seconds between sets. Children can improve strength by 30-50% after 8 to 12 weeks at two times per week of a well designed strength training program.
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Train to Train Stage (Males 12-16 and Females 11-15)
This stage involves moderate structure with the focus on technical skills and the secondary focus on performance outcomes. Aerobic training becomes a little more important, but the focus is still on skill, speed, and strength. Periodization can be incorporated slowly with multiple phases and foci and focus may shift to only two sports. Once young athletes have demonstrated great exercise technique with bodyweight and stabilization training they may progress to strength resistance training and eventually power exercises..
Free weights, weight machines, rubber tubing, and medicine balls can be incorporated for a variety of resistance types. Each training session would consist of 6 to 8 exercises that train the major muscle groups with a balanced effort between flexors and extensors and between upper and lower body. Sample exercises could include dumbbell squat and lunges, seated tubing row, staggered stance tubing chest press, and seated dumbbell overhead press on bench. Per the NASM OPT model a dosage of 1-3 sets, 6-15 reps, at moderate intensity, with a recovery of 30-90 seconds between sets is recommended for strength training. The initial load selected for children would be 10 to 15 repetitions that can be completed with some fatigue but no muscle failure. In general, resistance can be increased by 5-10% when the child easily performs 15 repetitions. If the child fails to complete at least 6 repetitions per set or is unable to maintain proper form, then the weight is too heavy and should be reduced.
Power exercises use explosive movements, so to progress to these exercises young athletes need to show great exercise technique and resistance training skill. Examples of power exercises include medicine ball soccer throw, medicine ball chest press, squat jumps, speed squat to overhead press, and eventually olympic lifts starting with just bar weight.
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that children and adolescents avoid competitive Olympic-style weight lifting and power lifting until they reach physical and skeletal maturity. The snatch and clean and jerk are complex movements that require skilled coaching and such lifts should never be performed without proper training and supervision. Therefore, we recommend that during the later stages of strength training and onset of power training your child train under the supervision of a strength and conditioning specialist. Many experts have recommended that there should be an appropriate athlete-to-coach ratio of one coach per 10 youth athletes to minimize risk. The NASM OPT model also recommends 1-3 sets, 3-6 reps, at high intensity, with 1.5-3 minutes rest between sets for power training.
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Written by: Katie Larson, PT, SCS, CSCS
This is a great 5-10 minute off hand ball handling workout for players 9 and up put together by Phil Beckner, an NBA skill development coach. It will improve your off hand control and feel for the ball.
Great footwork can allow you to create space, improve decision making, and finish at the rim against more athletic competition. Watch this video on the stride stop finish which includes game edits, teaching progression, and a mini-workout that can be done at home.
This is a free 10 to 15 minute ball handling workout that addresses ball quickness, changing speeds, and creating space. It can be done in your basement, garage, or driveway areas as part of your home physical education class! We are also now offering home individual instruction classes one time per week for 30 minutes. Go to our home page at youthbasketballdevelopment.com to find out more.